Monday, August 6, 2012

Saying Goodbye

June 3, 2012 marks one of the sadddest, most tear filled days for our family. It was the day we said farewell to our lovely 1st home and our DEAR friends. There were tears all morning, the whole drive down to Arizona, all night, ahh heck, there are still tears from time to time now. The house represented so much of what shaped us into a family. We learned so much physically and emotionally from that house. We worked ourselves (and many others) to the bone to create something we came to cherish. It is where we watched our babies turn to little people, 1st words were spoken, 1st steps taken, 1st days of school, and countless other firsts. The walls were truly filled with laughter, chaos, and love. The doors were opened by countless little hands eager to join my kiddos in their own little world of endless imagination. Some of my favorite times in that home were when the walls were shaking from 10-15 kids running around We created lifelong friendships with people we have come to love as deeply as our own family. They acted as grandparents, aunties, uncles and cousins to our children. The children were our kids best friends. The adults our best friends. We "shopped" in each others kitchens, stole tools out of each others garages, kept an eye on eachothers houses, celebrated each others triumphs and milemarkers and shouldered each other through hard times. The neighborhood was the definition of what a true neighborhood should be. We know we have made the right move but it is still VERY hard. I would give anything to have a good wall-shaking, floor-rattling, ear-piercing house full of kids again. We will always deeply cherish our time in Utah and hope that sometime soon we can be in a neighborhood at least half as cool! This picture defines two the two things I miss the most: 1. LOADS of kids (and all thier awesome parents. No this is not a party of any sort, just a typical day. 2. The beautiful view out our front window
The Monday before we left we got to have one last Memorial Day BBQ with all of our favorite people
Kalei with her pal "JetJet"
We all like John pretty well, but apparently he thinks differently of us!
The Shorts. These guys were as good as siblings (for some reason didn't get a picture of Jeremy, Jandi and little Mattson)
Showing their true colors
There's no telling how much trouble these 4 made together.
The other set of "siblings", the Halls
Again I failed to get Erin and Luke but we have a shot of Erin's arms when she graciously added Taiven.
Some of the neighborhood gang. Missing the Goods and many others.
Lil John, the boys idol!
Our dear friends the Mcilmoils.
With "Sister Beesey" The kids surrogate grandma, one of my best friends and mentor.
Our 1st home (and no, you will probably never get a good picture of the Shum family, accept it!)
The kids trying to figure out what in the world the movers thought they were doing with our stuff.
Many hours were spent in this tree at the local park.
Going for a final ride down the Beasley's driveway.
Went out for some ice cream with the Halls, Shorts, and Beasleys.
Brayden and Carson trying to figure out how they're going to conquer the world from long distance
We were lucky enough to catch Carson's baptism right before we left. What a neat experience.
After a heart-wrenching sacrament meeting, we hit the road and this is what it looked like most of the way down. The boys cried plenty too, they just put their tough faces on for the camera.
Lest you all thimk we're sitting around moping, here's some smiling face in front of our new house!

1 comment:

Cool Hand Luke said...

Thanks... thanks so much for making me cry! We really miss you guys, the summer water fun at the bus, stop after school, in church! Everything. We miss the Shums!SOrry, I am signed in as Luke right now :)